Having people being needy of you is a spiritual short circuit. The question is: what (energy) are you really facilitating – unconditional love, or “bread of shame“?
When you are dependent on others, things, the externalities to fulfil your lack, feed your emptiness, improve your situation, you are giving away the pilot seat of your life.
Likewise, when you are allowing others to be needy of you, overly-dependent on you, when you are becoming the “worshipped idol”, you are also taking others away from their own destiny.
Be mindful of where and how you are sourcing your energy, as well as allowing others to source theirs.
Words inspired by a Kabbalah Centre podcast here.